Mary, Mark & Ray Dive! - Six Flags 2008

Sunday, July 20, 2008


This was on Mark's Birthday trip to Great America. Wow. WORTH. EVERY. PENNY. I have to say of all of the times I have been to Great America, this was the ABSOLUTE best visit of all time! I hope that everyone that was there also had a blast, because I did. I hadnt been in years, and I dont think I'll be going back for years, because I doubt I can top that experience. :D

Anyway, we rode just about every adult ride in the park, save for the Whizzer, which just goes to show that if you are dedicated, and go on a weekday, you can do the entire park. Plus, we arrived after 10am, and took many, MANY breaks to do leisure things like play the games (Mark rang the bell and won a boat), play arcade games (the boys), and go out to the parking lot to tailgate for awhile.

Most Memorable Ride Ratings:
DareDevil Dive = 10/10
Vertical Velocity = 9/10
The Raging Bull = 9/10
The Drop = 6/10

And If yo want to get REALLY wet, without going to Hurricane Harbor, just ride the Raging Rapids.


All in all, a BLAST!
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Evolution v. Creationism

Friday, July 18, 2008
Hey! I agree with Creationism. And so do a lot of highly intelligent people I know - some of whom are in science professions.

I think it takes a lot of gall and global groupthink to "decide" that one theory is more plausible than the next (when neither are proven by fact), and require it to be the only education a child receives.

Yes. It is true that among the intellectual elite, or those that think they are intellectual, Creationism is publicly looked down on, and religion is considered the opium of the masses.

I am not at all an advocate of silencing voices in the public, and as a person in the legal profession, I do not agree that a separation of Church and State is a justification to wholesale ignore religion, or to stonewall it, or to silence it by legislation. The State was supposed to protect religion, and to protect people from abuses of religion. Somewhere, in all of this, we've gotten to a place where the State has adopted an actively atheist agenda, and abuses religion - and in doing so, it thereby "chooses" a side, which places us right back where the Pilgrims were - terrified that they were going to be abused by the state for believing in something the State doesnt. Whatever happened to the free flow of ideas? The State wasnt supposed to adopt an agenda, but was only supposed to play the part of a nuetral observer and referee, a protector of all, regardless of agenda or belief. Instead, we have a State that is so afraid of itself, so afraid of its ability to remain nuetral, or so beholden to an atheist lobby, that it is actively frustrating real discourse on the subject of religion.

And then we get those few "make-up" calls every now and again so the political process of the State will have legitimacy - this is when we get them forcing people to go to Muslim schools, or forcing NY taxpayers to PAY for a private Muslim school. Things like this are in EXACT opposition to the very anti-religious agenda they espouse!

And everyone that believes in God is not a backwoods, backwards, unlearned idiot.

And - Lets not get confused here with all the buzzwords we are tossing around.

for sake of this post:
science = fact
fact = tangible, known, factual discoveries (this category does not include suppositions, regardless of how generally accepted they are - let us remember, as has been pointed out, it was once generally accepted that the world was flat)
theories = suppositions based on facts, or interpretations of the unknown, based on the known; also random suppositions

As has been mentioned, the myriad 'scientific' discoveries found do not prove evolution with singularity. My point is that studies have consistently argued that the FACTS at the base of science can be interpreted or argued to apply to both evolution and creationism/ID, and more. No one is arguing that the discoveries are non-existent - merely that they give rise to a more expansive interpretation than simply "evolution."

However and unfortunately for the science field, modern scientific thinking has decided to apply the findings as though they exclusively prove evolution, and evolution only. This is the crux of the debate - not what religion, or which religion, or IF religion. The rub, then, with believers in creationism/ID, or believers in anything OTHER than evolution, or hey, even people who want investigate or know about theories other than evolution, whether they believe/accept them or not, is that the classroom adopts a singular interpretation from "science."

I have several friends who are teachers - be it Junior High, High School, even University. Most of them agree that the public scientific education, in that it is exclusively adopts evolution, is lopsided.

Lets recap: this is not about which religion's vantage point is taught. I could care less if a science class spent one week on Creationism/ID, and hit every major religion's thoughts on the idea, or just generally discussed within the framework of ID that most major religions, as a whole (though there are differing versions of "how it was done"), believe in the God-Creation account. All I argue is that when evolution is taught wholesale as the ONLY way, the ONLY theory, the ONLY correct version - that's problematic, dont you think?

What kind of education - true, enlightened education precludes discussion of, or at least mention of other, dissenting views? The entire point is not to shut down the opposing viewpoint, but to with reasoned logic and compelling evidence and/or persuasion, successfully argue for the viewpoint it thinks right.

See the diagram I attached.


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God's "Mysterious" Ways

Wednesday, July 9, 2008
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I believe in a God, I do. But I was just reading about a plane crash, and thought "you know, where was God here?"

Not just any plane crash either. Oooooh, no. This was a plane evacuating ORPHANS! Orphan Flight! Baby Plane!

That's right, "God" brought down a plane of orphans being evacuated from a warzone, killing 138 of the little toddlers. As an encore, maybe He'll set fire to a warehouse of puppies, kittens and baby seals.

Sooooo... I dunno. Maybe he just has a really weird sense of humour.



True questions get true answers. Questions disguised as questions, which are really nothing more than opportunities to say this is why I'm right, and you're wrong, are actually thus perceived, and no real answers are forthcoming, only....circular debate about a same old tired issue.

a If you didn’t believe in God, I would say that the premise of this comment is argumentative and disingenuous.
b If you believe in a Supreme Being (God), but are unsure of where s/he fits in the overall scheme of things and are skeptical of all things religion, I would say that the premise of this comment may be argumentative or may be genuine. Argumentative, because if you are the one that says you believe in the random existence of a Supreme Being and reject all typical explanations offered, then simply come to your own conclusion about it - why is anyone beholden to explain it to you? Genuine, because if you do believe in a Supreme Being and do not reject all typical explanations offered, or are at least open to hearing more, you may genuinely want to hear the explanations offered.
c If you completely believe in God, and accept your (any major) religion's explanation of her/him, I would say this comment is wholly sincere in an attempt to understand something you do not understand.

I continue to be taken aback at the assumption that anyone who believes in God is required to justify to an atheist what we call by law "Acts of God," which are to the naked eye "acts of nature" really. I have yet to meet a Christian (any of the sects or non-sects), or a Muslim, or a Catholic, or a Jew who is astonished, worried or surprised in any "why would God let this happen" way by these tragedies. The people who are (or pretend to be?) surprised/overwhelmed are either atheists, or people who believe in some random God and are so far from comprehension of their random God that they are unable to reconcile his/her perceived acts with their understanding. But they do believe in him/her though, and they expect us to explain their God to them. Or else they don’t believe in God at all and are faking surprise and asking the question to be argumentative.

Here’s the thing. It is really not worth arguing about unless you are truly willing to listen to the answer, and conversely, those being asked are truly able to hear the question. most people have some sort of answer from somewhere, even if from their own Sunday school from back in the day, whether they agree with the answer or not.

If you are truly looking for a new answer, that's one thing, but if what you really want to say is “Hey! Here is why I DONT believe in God! And I'd like to debate the issue with you!” you have the right to say that. Just say it.

Other than that, you already know you are not required to believe in God, and you will no doubt go right on living your life as it is if you don’t. I truly believe that everyone at some point in their life has a God-Experience (religious designation irrelevant), and until you have that experience, arguing about it or attempting to dissect the finer points of things you don’t understand is really a waste of time. Because without your own God-Experience the words and rhetoric, no matter how heartfelt and meaningful, mean nothing. The sad tragedy is that there are a vast majority of people walking around the entire world who claim Christianity or Muslim or Jew or any other major religion who lack a God-Experience, and are no different really than say....you, or any other atheist, save in rhetoric and words. Nothing about them has been changed or is different from you in any way other than a religious affiliation.

So, it is true. Religious people can be false, or have a dead or vain religion, and how can you know what to trust? What to believe in? Who can really blame you? I blame no one this distrust, because I honestly believe that people have more of a reason NOT to believe than to believe.


I could go on, but I'm not sure there is really any point in it. I only say that if you do not believe in God, then you should need no explanation for tragedy. If you do believe in God, and you lack the explanation, it is your responsibility to seek out the answer, if only for the peace of your mind.
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Happy 4th of July, Liz!


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Dementia & Weddings. Who Knew?

Monday, July 7, 2008
So. me and my sisters went to vist our demented grandmother the weekend of May 17th. with our dad, who is her son. she spent the balance of the trip thinking that our aunt (her daughter) was our dad's mother (thus thinking our aunt was our grandmother), which totally irritated my dad, but was kind of fun. it was more fun the more irritated he got, simply because the man has spent his life being a blunt instrument - unfortunately, you cant fix someone's mind by telling them to "suck it up!" finesse. gentility. understanding. these words are not a part of his vocabulary. apparently she thinks her daughter is dead, and refuses to believe otherwise, even though aunt comes by every. single. day. (and then I went and made the mistake of calling our aunt (who is my very own namesake!) "grandma" over dinner --- it was a very tense moment, in which I almost wondered if I was going to catch one of those grown people beat downs. However, my gaffe was intentionally and artfully deflected by the immediate and sudden cacophony of my sisters' loud and inane chatter. plus, they were between me and her. ;))


the old man, grams & me

The next weekend though, me and my mom kicked it with some family friends. our fam + their fam = friends since the old days. childhood buddy got married the way some people did in the old days.....at the end of a shotgun. except. there was no shotgun, no "family way," and no underage or even college age minors. instead, it tasted of the new new shotgun wedding of people who already have the house, honeymoon and car, tire of "living in sin" and decide to finally put the cart before the horse and get a judge to tie the old knot. so yeah. he called me friday night to share the news and to see if the fam could show on short notice - since mom and I were the only ones in town, I dragged her out to the celebratory dinner, where I spent the evening like all singles at marriage events - being shamelessly scrutinized like I was for sale - to which I compensated handsomely by teasing the guys and couple at my table (I've known all since childhood). something so wrong should not have felt so right, but they got me back by trying to give me the bouquet. Then I played with the children, which is always fun (actually, they ran me a little ragged, and me and all my "stuff" felt a little worse for the wear).


r to l: me (caught in the unfortunate "lean"), bride, groom, mom


And yeah. I totally rocked the same casual outfit both weekends. :D
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Religion v. Science

Sunday, July 6, 2008
I don’t consider science and God mutually exclusive - never have, never will. Frankly, I think its absurd to even try to make them either : or propositions, because people who do try generally tend to find themselves entrenched in a position they can't backpedal out of when they hit a analytical snag. The truth is, even science can’t explain everything - scientists have admitted it, and I'm always confused by the failure of people who claim to "defend" science's inability to admit this.

One should not elevate science itself to infallible Godhood in an attempt to defend its rightness - that would be totally spinning the argument for science on its head. Despite consistent application of analytical theorization to a set of facts, some scientific conclusions are simply still just speculation.

Faith, of any kind, has already admitted on its face that it is speculation. People have already quoted the bedrock (and damning, if you’re putting forth an argument) scripture about faith in one various "religion" discussions (e.g. 2 Peter 1:20,21). No one is even arguing that it is not speculation - sight unseen, sight unproven.

Proven would be the antithesis of Faith.

this is entire crux of this passage:
Rom 8:24,25 For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, [then] do we with patience wait for [it].

So. If your argument is that a belief in God is based on speculation - you have no dissent, because we agree. However, I would argue also that scientific theory is also speculation. I seriously feel like I’m repeating an old argument so I wont belabor that point, but I will show you this passage, and I find it humorous, because if you step back from the red haze of blind debate, you have to find it interesting how it also applies to how science goes about conceptualizing its understanding of the universe:
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made

Isn’t it true that scientists, great thinkers, etc., in many instances explain the unknown by the known? Everyone, scientists and believers alike, take what IS and speculate about what WAS or what WILL BE. In this, we are alike, whether admitted or not.

Now. When you get down to brass tacks about the veracity of the bible, or the Quran, or any other chosen scripture, yadda, yadda, my understanding is that the bible is the only one that has been consistently proven as a historically correct document. Science has proven many of the events explained as having happened. Some people take issues with some parts, some with all of it, and suddenly what you have is a line drawn down the middle, and people on either side either believing or not believing. All or nothing. Such a dogmatic approach has to be very limiting for those scientists who choose to take it, because they are forced to become extreme, and even reject its proven historical context and truth.

I find people like that unreasonable in their profession, and extreme to the degree of fanaticism.

But lets talk about normal people you meet.

People chat about belief in God all the time - what you have is:

1. An un-informed guess
......(a) a scientific guess
......(b) a religious guess
2. An educated guess
......(a) a scientific guess
......(b) a religious guess
3. Wholesale acceptance of anything told to them without investigating for one's self.

The truth is, you could run into any one of these people at any time, and may not know the difference. What's unfortunate for science is that it is a human impulse to believe in something greater than one's self (cant be bothered to cast back to Philosophy class to figure out which person espoused that point) - always will be. And the true argument of science with religion is generally the argument of the skeptic with that same human impulse to God.

I am very happy that we do not all have to be skeptics. Nor do I think the questions should go unasked. Because undoubtedly there is an answer to every question, whether it is accepted or not, and there are a great many skeptics who obtained the answer they were seeking.



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So, an 11 year old girl died in Wisconsin of diabetes because her parents did not believe in medicine, but instead in prayer healing. She first stopped eating, then drinking, then could barely walk, and finally went comatose on a mattress on their kitchen floor.


Before we get all caught up in the emotionalism of the moment, let me first say that I have concerns about this story. I'm confused about why the mattress was on the kitchen floor? I've had the dubious pleasure of seeing inside the homes of people who live like that, and from my observation, its unclean and strange even if the child was 100% healthy. In the home I saw, even the dog slept on the bed - people also walked on it with their shoes, and it didn’t have sheets on it. It disturbed me, and I was a child. Suffice to say, I was very glad when our visit ended.

I have no problem with prayer healing. I also have no problem with corporeal punishment. I do have a problem with parental neglect, and I have a serious problem with child abuse. I do, however, understand that the former instances do not necessarily include the latter instances. I think it shameful that so many people guilty of the latter(s), attempt to shield themselves by claiming the former(s). Further, my understanding was that most states will charge a parent with a criminal charge (of neglect?) if they just let their child die - you cant do that because you will have broken the law.

The way I see it, its up to the parent. Believe in God and see your faith met with healing or see your child die and go to jail (in this instance, I think the inner turmoil a real, loving, caring parent would feel would be jail enough - that, or they would have a great inner peace). Or take the child to doctor and they might be instantly better or they might die of a terminal illness anyway. Or do both. It’s their child, its their choice. Me? I am totally ok with prayer/faith healing - I even believe it such that I do not take medicine (unless of course my dad made me, which was once when I was a child, and unless you count Novocain at the dentist). Not even an Advil or Tylenol for a headache. I'm ok with that. The way I see it, I'm just like any normal person - I'd like to live life as long and as full as I can, but I am not crazy - death is something that will visit us all, someday. Its in my signature! Who's to say my day wont come sooner than later? If its my time to go, its my time to go.

Let's talk about the dead.

I actually know people who have died - young people in their 20s or 30s, friends who have died of terminal illnesses who refused medicine or surgery, etc, and others who have died who accepted medicine surgery, etc. And you know what their doctors said to them in the face of their illnesses? Do you believe in God? Pray. So give the people who decide to pre-empt the thousands of dollars in medical bills and just stay home a break. Some people do believe in God, and some ailments are irreversible by modern science - maybe it would be more preferable to the healthy spectator, the intellectual debater to have the Ill first spend every dollar trying to solve the problem medically, and then, when their doctor tells them to "Pray" to pray. Give me a break. Die with dignity. I've seen it, and its far better than dying scratching, clawing, clearly dying and still unhappy, still turbulent even at the close of your life.

Everyone is not the same - some believe faith is exercised by medical intervention. Others believe faith is exercised when medical intervention is rejected. Everyone is different, with a different interpretation - it is personal down to the individual. What is true, though, of those people who reject medical intervention, is that they are consciously making a decision to rely only on God and (1) be healed, or (2) die.

What they are doing is taking the choice out of their own hands, and placing the result squarely on their God. For better. For worse. And they accept either outcome. If they get better, thank God. If they die, it was their time to go - they were not supposed to be bettered in any way. I feel there is dignity in that quiet acceptance of one's fate. Furthermore, I don’t think the feeling or impulse to give/live this ultimatum is a strange or odd impulse - else we wouldn’t have phrases like: do or die! or even Paul Revere's statement give me liberty or give me death. Sometimes, death is one of the alternatives on the table, inevitable or not.

They'd. Rather. Die.

Now. Let's talk about the living.

Belief that God heals presupposes a belief in God (so for sake of argument these people believe in God). It also presupposes a belief that the choice of healing is his - and that he may or may not choose to heal. Do you know that I also know people who he has healed? I've seen it with my own eyes, and not from a charlatan or "faith healer" shyster as depicted in the movies. No. Time would fail for me to tell you of the things that have happened to one of the people closest to me: my own mother, for one. I would characterize her as a devout woman of faith - for my whole life. Here are a few stories that I saw with my own eyes.

Example 1:
When I was young, my mother fell off of a ladder, harming both of her legs and completely and irreparably crushing her right ankle. She was told by her doctor that she would never walk again. We all believed it, specifically me and my sibs because we were the ones who were her nursemaids. We had to bring everything to her bed - even bedpan because she was unable to walk. My father carried her wherever she needed to go, and when he was at work, my brothers and sisters and I did everything else. Everything. She was given therapy, and at one point, her doctor informed her that her foot was dead, her leg was dying, and that they would need to amputate her leg. She refused to have it amputated, such that even though we were children she would discuss emergency situations with us, that if ever an ambulance came and took her before our dad got home, we were to insist that her leg not be amputated. She was told she would die if it wasn’t amputated. She and my father got opinion after opinion from other doctors and the answer was the same - if the leg wasn’t amputated, she would die. I was there. I even occasionally went to hospital with her. She chose to believe God, and we ended up having the family talk (sans Dad on this one! He's a non-Christian ) that we needed to understand that Mom might die. You have no idea how hard and how many nights I prayed. She prayed. My sibs prayed. Even my non-believing Father prayed. Our friends prayed. Or Pastor prayed. Our church prayed. And one day, instead of dying, she started walking with crutches. And then with the two-handed cane. And then with a 1-hand cane. And then with high-top tennis shoes. And then with flats. And then with heels. And as of today, she runs with both feet just like me, and suffers occasionally the mild ankle swelling that many middle-aged women do. It wasn’t overnight like some Benny Hinn entertainment venue. Like some side show, with "healing" to be sold for money. It was real. It was over time. And it was in direct contradiction to modern medicine. I'm willing to believe 1 doctor mis-diagnosed. but 3? 4? She climbed up on a ladder this year with both feet to hang the curtains in the first floor of my home.

Example 2:
Again, I was a teen, and good lord, again my mother was at the hospital and she and my dad kept going back for various visits. It was to the point where we were like What is going on?? Finally, they could keep it from us no longer: they sat us down and told us that the doctor had found a tumor in my Mom, and that he had said it was cancerous. They had been back again and again for various tests and were waiting for results. They tried to play it down, like, of course it wouldn’t be cancer for real, like REAL deathly cancer, and for us not to worry, but to pray, and they would let us know. Weeks went by. You cannot know how many nights we prayed for her life - I could not imagine life without her. I was a child. I was like God! I know I can, but I don’t want to live without my Mom! Please! I'm not ready yet! More weeks went by, and finally my Mom sat us all down (again, without my Dad), and explained to us that the tests had come back showing she had cancer, that she was refusing surgery and treatment, that she was believing in God. She also explained that the doctor had sent her and my Dad home and told her she would be dead inside 4 months, and that we needed to understand that she might die. That was an intense period of time in our lives. Lots of prayer happened, and none really in a church environment. A month passed. Another month. Another month. Another month. Another month. Months and months. Finally one day, I asked her Mom, do you still have cancer? She didn’t know. She made herself a doctor’s appointment and went in to see the same doctor. When she came back she said he was surprised she was still in the land of the living, had run tests, and had found no tumor. At all. He would not accept that he had mis-diagnosed, and told her she must have really prayed.

The doctors know her very well, and every time she has had a life-threatening illness (there are more), they don’t even fight with her - they know she's the lady who believes in God, and even though they may be dubious about God, they don’t argue that strange things happened in her case.
Of all the cases I know personally, I am constantly amazed by the dignity with which they lived or died.

Now. Somewhere in there I get the feeling that this became incredibly sappy, and that's unfortunate, but probably because I answered a scenario with a scenario. Ah well. Cant be helped. And now, because I'm such a sap , here you go:

Last Lines
by Emily Bronte

No coward soul is mine,
No trembler in the world’s storm-troubled sphere:
I see Heaven’s glories shine,
And faith shines equal, arming me from fear.

O God within my breast,
Almighty, ever-present Deity!
Life—that in me has rest,
As I—undying Life—have power in Thee!

Vain are the thousand creeds
That move men’s hearts: unutterably vain;
Worthless as wither’d weeds,
Or idlest froth amid the boundless main,

To waken doubt in one
Holding so fast by Thine infinity;
So surely anchor’d on
The steadfast rock of immortality.

With wide-embracing love
Thy Spirit animates eternal years,
Pervades and broods above,
Changes, sustains, dissolves, creates, and rears.

Though earth and man were gone,
And suns and universes cease to be,
And Thou were left alone,
Every existence would exist in Thee.

There is not room for Death,
Nor atom that his might could render void:
Thou—Thou art Being and Breath,
And what Thou art may never be destroyed.

http://classicpoetryaloud.podomatic.com/entry/2007-11-12T13_22_46-08_00
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